Good Words Now Establish Good Relationships With Constant Changes.

　　 Excellent psychological quality

Sometimes, Workplace It's also a bit "groundless and groundless". If you see mountains and mountains and see water and water, you may have endless hearts. So, if you feel that someone is saying something right now, it's better to laugh or ignore it. Even if you feel that someone is attacking you with language, instead of having to go to war with your lips and lose your temper, it is better to go back to the next and observe it quietly. Because you can make use of what the other person has said to gather evidence to show what he or she wants to do or exactly what to do.

　　 Clear thinking and no blindness.

If you are a hot barrel, you won't lose in two rounds. In fact, many people in the workplace who use "nice words" to attack you are vulnerable, because he or she is usually not prepared to do a good job of criticizing anyone.

So if you really want to do it Verbal counterattack We must remember that we must seize the key and strike at once, and never waste time in a long war of words. It is good to have clear thinking and quick decision, but the best way is always to make things big and small.

　　 There is a "right and wrong scale" in mind.

Just like the old fox in the workplace, there is no lack of true feelings in the workplace. So in your heart, you must always have a benchmark of right and wrong attitude. You have to make a detour of a conspiracy. You can't miss a real friend. If you are too naive to think of a hypocrite and a real villain as a good friend and regard you as an enemy, you will be miserable if you are used to judging people's heart according to a few words. Whenever possible, objective understated is the correct workplace attitude.

　　 Public display of their own attitude

Obedience or tolerance can not win respect in the workplace. People know that persimmon should be soft and knead, so you can be silent, but don't lose the principle and bottom line. It makes people feel that you are a good gentleman who can be commented by others. Sometimes, you just do not give up; sometimes you just disdain to fight back; but sometimes, the universe is also going to explode, so that people around you realize this, that is the effective way to let you escape the devil's dictionary.

　　 Judging by words habits

People always think that they are speaking and writing articles in their own words. In fact, it is a self expanding desire to borrow other people's inadvertently. In turn, we can get a glimpse of this person's innermost feelings. For example, people who use difficult words and foreign languages will be confused. In fact, such people use words as a shield to conceal their inner weakness.

　　 Speaking is more important than what is said.

If someone is dissatisfied or hostile, many people speak slowly and slightly. If you are ashamed of your heart or lying, you will naturally speak faster. When two people disagree, a person raises his tone, which means he wants to overpower the opponent. For a person who has an intention, he will deliberately speak and speak, create a sense of difference, have a desire to attract others' attention, and reveal himself in a vague way. If a person is serious enough to listen, he will probably sit upright and stare at each other. On the contrary, his vision is bound to be scattered, and his body may be tilting or moving. This is the expression of his boredom. Through these micro expressions to help judge, absolutely foolproof.